We've all heard the horror stories of the average visitor to Thailand getting "stiffed" by a bar girl or whatever.
Why is this? Well I'm about to tell you
It matters not, what Nationality you are, you risk falling into the trap of falling in love with a beautiful Thai girl. (And believe me they abound!!)
Everything is great while you are in Thailand and she gives you all her attention catering for your every need.
Eventually you have to go home. She's already home.
Many people go home and arrange to send their new love money every week or month to keep them out of the bars. This is highly commendable but, fraught with problems.
The old saying is that "You can take the girl out of the bar but, you can't take the bar out of the girl."
It has to be understood before ever leaving home, in Thailand a girl has only 2 ways to connect with a man. Either she is a "bar girl" (prostitute) or she needs to be formally introduced through a friend or relative to a prospective "amore."
No other ways exist in Thai society. Thailand is a very polite society.
Whilst they accept bar girls as an acceptable profession, no self respecting Thai male would accept a woman by this route. Even though he might avail himself of their services.
So, we are left with only one way to meet a nice Thai girl. Either through a friend or relative.
This is not an easy option for someone here for only a short period because, the average visitor has no Thai friends. What is the answer?
Please understand not all bar girls are in the business of "stiffing" visitors but, it is easy money to send to their families, 98% of bar girls do this.
OK! so now we understand the rules of engagement, how can a visitor who desperately wants to meet a "nice" Thai girl proceed?
Most Thai Introduction sites or agencies are seen in the western world as glorified "knocking shops" This is simply not true!!
There are a couple of very good Thai introduction agencies who can (for a fee) facilitate "formal" before you arrive in Thailand.
Before coming to Thailand you can strike up a relationship with one or more Thai ladies. - Your choice!!
Visit one or more of the Thai introduction agencies. Join up and explore the possibilities before home.
Visit my website for more information. Details below:
I am a 65 yr old British ex-pat living in a small village in Northern Thailand, between Chiang Mai and Lampang.
My main interest is Thai life in all its forms but, because of where I live it will tend to be more of a rural nature rather than city life.
If you have any questions you wish to put to me I would be most happy to try to answer. If I don't know I will certainly know someone who will.
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